Women i need advice, what am i doing wrong?

my ex and i are on the rocks, its really over,, and i would just like to find a woman a little older, im in my later 30s, that is outgoing, casinos, pleasure,and im willing to give her what she wants, anything she wants.. i mean i love to make a woman feel good, its like i could climax just pleasing her,,i know thats personal but its the truth,, i mean i have a degree in law, i try to take care of my woman and love to watch lifetime movies with a fire in the fireplace, i dont know if im trying to hard,,,but it just never seems to work out,, maybe it because i like so much and she doesnt .. i mean i know its not my performance because i know shes having a good time,, so i dont know what it is..and yes i am a woman,,maybe its i spoil her to much,,i dont know..i know i put a little inapropriate detail and im sorry,, im just confused and really cant ask anyone else